What can you do to honor a day of love and foster thriving relationships the other 364 days of the year?

If in the end you have a fun, pleasurable, connecting, consensual, sexy time with yourself or a partner, then who freakin cares how you got there?

Desire discrepancy is when one person experiences more or less sexual desire than their partner. This is inevitable in a long-term relationship. Even though it is common and normal, it can be distressing and a cause of disconnection in a partnership.

Imagine it’s Saturday morning and your partner says “I am going to the grocery store, what would you like?”

It takes imagination and creativity to experience pleasure. It can be a powerful mindset that brings you into control of your satisfaction and unlocks the playfulness that adults too often lose.

It is guaranteed that in a long-term relationship, there are times you will feel bored, disconnected, disenchanted, hurt, and lonely. When your relationship is struggling, it can be hard to view commitment as a luxury.